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When Your Child's in Charge
10 Tips for Parents of Babysitters
By Gina Roberts-Grey, LCSW
She should also know what the parents' expectations are and if the children have any special needs, allergies, etc. A child who can't find his favorite "banky" is often unable to sleep if the babysitter doesn't know she needs to search the house for a "blanket."
Help your child realize this is her first foray into self employment. The value of dependability and responsibility will lead to additional employment, as well as referrals. Ask friends or relatives to provide letters of recommendation she can offer potential new customers. Suggest your child make up informational flyers to pass out to your neighbors that highlight her training, experience and availability.
If you know that it's hard for your child to stay out late or get up early, help her set realistic goals for the babysitting jobs she accepts. Some kids can't cope with "working" on a school night or the evening before a sports game. She may become mentally or physically exhausted after working more than a few hours or be fearful of being away from home during severe weather conditions. Some children are not comfortable changing diapers, and others may not want the pressure of preparing meals. Acknowledging all of her limitations and expectations provides a set of guidelines ith which all of you can work.