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Paternity Leave

Why It's Important to Consider Taking Paternity Leave

By Katherine Bontrager

Even though they're only a few days old, McGowan is convinced that there's an enduring connection that originates during those special times when it's just you and your child. "On one of the first nights home with Lilly, she and I just stared at one another and I finally understood what so many other fathers had described to me as a boundless sense of love parents have for their child," he says.

For many, taking paternity leave can be a challenge. The rigors of the workforce don't just come to a halt because your world has changed. "These days it's very hard for many young families to get by on one income, so Dad can't take much or any time off," says Brott. "At the same time, men are often afraid that if they take leave their career will suffer – they won't make partner, their coworkers won't take them seriously and so on."

"A lot of things were put on hold at work," Scheer admits. "Especially since my wife and I are partners in our own marketing firm. However, I wouldn't have changed a thing about being away. I work because it's necessary. I spend time with my children because I get a thrill from it. I grew up with a father who worked constantly and we didn't have much of a relationship until about a year before he died. I don't want that for my kids. Work will always be there."

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