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And Baby Makes Four
Staying Connected with Your Wife and Children After the New Baby Arrives
By Dr. Susan Bartell
- During this time, take the baby out of the house whenever possible, so that it is truly just you and the baby with no interruptions. This can be a good time to go for a walk, to give him or her a bath or a meal or to run errands. So pack the diaper bag and go! Spending time with your new bundle doing regular daily tasks, rather than unusual, contrived ones will further increase your bond. It will also teach the baby to feel just as secure and comfortable with you as he or she feels with Mom.
- When you're feeling brave enough, take both children and give your wife a break! While you're playing "good guy" by giving your wife a chance to get a manicure, meet a friend or just grab a nap, you will also be proving to yourself and your children that you are a real hands-on dad. Remember, the real-life, practical events that make up daily life are the ones that will help you bond with your children. So try to color with your 4-year-old while you have a baby on your lap, carry your infant in a front-pack while baking cookies with your toddler or push a swing with one hand and a stroller with the other. Your children will be thrilled to have your involvement in their lives, and most important, you will have the bonds and the memories that only loved and loving children can give you.
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