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Working at Home

Is it For You?

By Greg Downs

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Managing Time
Separate spaces don't eliminate the temptation to sneak up to the office in the middle of the night. This was a challenge Joe Kelly faced eight years ago when he and his wife, Nancy Gruver, founded a home-based magazine for adolescent girls called New Moon. Kelly, a former radio reporter, wanted the magazine to be edited by teenagers, so he started it close to home with his then-preteen twin daughters, Mavis Gruver and Nia Kelly.

"The first couple of years were difficult in setting the boundaries," says Kelly, who recently left the magazine to direct Dads and Daughters, a program that lobbies against negative images of young girls in the mass media. "I was being a little compulsive, answering the phones at 2 o'clock in the morning in case somebody's calling for subscriptions. When do you close the door? The kids were the ones who really pushed us on that, demanding that we not be so compulsive about working all the time. At 6:30 we'd have to stop and come downstairs and eat dinner. They played the enforcers."

Finding time for spouses while running a business and caring for young children is also a challenge. "For a while my wife and I probably spent 15 minutes a day having conversation," says Massey. "That was it. And some of that would be while we were brushing our teeth."

Balancing the Needs of Clients and Children
Some fathers find it difficult to get work done at home. What should they do, for example, when their child starts to scream during an important phone call? The answer depends both upon what help the father has and how much crying he can stand. "It's difficult to not intervene," says Dr. Robert Frank, author of The Involved Father: Getting Dads to Participate More in the Daily Lives of Their Children

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