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What a Father Is Worth
The Invaluable Lessons Dads Teach Us
By Gina Roberts-Grey, LCSW
father's contribution is important in his child's life.
Years ago, mothers used to be thought of as the primary at-home educator, source of nurturing and caregiver. Today's fathers are realizing their approach to parenting needs to be enhanced from their predecessors, yet they still question how to be a significant part of their child's life.
It can be difficult for a hard working and driven father to come home and relate to his toddler daughter's tea party or newfound love of lavender unicorns. Dads who are working two jobs to save for college aren't always eager to spend their only day off playing endless hours of catch with a son who's trying to learn how to field grounders.
"Many fathers believe that quality time spent with children must be deliberate or scheduled," says Mazurski. A day at the museum or going to the movies after enduring errands is commonly thought of as spending quality time together. But alternative and beneficial fatherly participation can be less structured, more frequent and cheaper than going to the movies.
