Sometimes all that is needed to rekindle that remaining spark is a bit of romance and intimacy, as well as letting her know that you are thinking of her. And if you don't know how to say what it is you are thinking or feeling, try looking for someone to say it for you.

"I know this might sound strange, but in my business we bring couples closer together by offering them a different channel of communication," says Rob (a.k.a. The PillowMail Guy). "We use e-mail to let male and female fantasies come together and are actually realized by the couple. PillowMail allows each couple to instantly compose and e-mail each other their own erotic fantasy customized especially with their own details." PillowMail.com was built to help couples nudge the relationship to new and exciting levels.

"Nothing says 'I want you' better without risking all than a suggestive e-mail," says Rob. "It's safe, and more importantly, it's really effective. Because we start the stories from a romantic perspective (you can guess where we finish), women love the service. The men are grateful, too, judging by the fan mail."