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Showers of Blue

Giving Dads-to-Be a Day of Their Own

By Gina Roberts-Grey, LCSW

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Another Baby, Another Party
Another innovative twist is planning a father's shower for a repeat father-to-be. When he was preparing to be a second-time dad, Rich O'Dean of Crystal Lake, Ill., didn't expect his family and friends to plan a day dedicated to him becoming a father. "I'll never forget the thoughtful sentiment and surprise of walking into that," he says.

Expectant fathers who know that the gender of their new baby is opposite of a sibling's may also appreciate a fun and relaxed opportunity to celebrate this latest uncharted foray into parenting. In addition, a father's shower that celebrates a second or third child takes some of the pressure off family members and friends who are wondering what gift to give the new baby or parents.

Themes and Dreams
Imagine a baby shower without streamers, elaborate centerpieces and balloons. A father's shower can be simple and easy to set up, and virtually no decorations are necessary.

Father's showers do not necessarily have to be about giving and receiving gifts. A hip dad might enjoy a poker party that gives him the chance to catch up with friends and show off his ability to assemble the new baby's crib. Some men might enjoy getting together to watch a weekend sporting event, feast on favorite snack foods and share diaper changing horror stories.

Another option is giving the dad-to-be the chance to have a night or weekend to himself. A father's shower can be nothing more than the opportunity to relax, prepare or fatherhood or hang out with equally busy friends before your baby arrives.


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