The Coed Baby Shower
A Shower for Everyone
By Jessica Williams
Before the shower, place words relating to baby activities and items on index cards. At the shower, get teams together and give each team a pad of paper and pencil. Let one member of the team see a card, then tell them to draw that word or phrase for their partner to guess. Use a timer or just play until someone guesses. This is similar to the "All Play" option of the Pictionary game.
Although most gifts will be something for the new baby, some guests may want to give gifts that are for the parents. Consider giving hand-made gift certificates for a free night of baby-sitting or some classical music the whole family can enjoy on relaxing evenings. Film and photo albums are also great gifts both parents can appreciate.
Coed showers are becoming more popular because many men are actively involved in their partner's pregnancy. Straying from tradition to include a father-to-be in the activities is a great way to show support and understanding. Dads enjoy opening gifts for the new baby and celebrating this special event with their partner. Coed showers can be a great place for other parents to share tips and advice about the wonderful aspects of being a parenting team.
Does dad want to be involved in the shower?
When your host starts planning the shower, you may want to ask your partner if he feels left out. Many women are surprised to hear that their partner would like to attend the shower, but it makes sense. After all, if he has been involved in your pregnancy, he may like the support and encouragement often given at showers. Be sure your host understands his wishes, too. | |
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