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Baby's First Birthday

By Jessica Williams

Be prepared to give gift ideas before the big event. Other parents may understand that kids have special likes and dislikes. Adults who don't have children may be confused about what to get a toddler. Be honest about what she needs and already has. If she likes to have stories read to her, don't feel shy about asking for new books. If grandma wants to buy her something that sounds potentially dangerous, discourage her and give her a new idea. Many toys are not meant for small children, and it can be hard to take a new present away once it has been given. Be clear about what gifts are best for your child.

Documentation of this special event is important. You will obviously want pictures or video of your child eating her first birthday cake! But keep a few things in mind. First, you want to enjoy her special moments as they happen, not while you watch it on video after the fact. If you are stuck behind the lens all day, you are likely to miss out on the special moments that aren't captured on film. Designate someone else to take photos and video so that you can enjoy your child's birthday with her. You can always sneak a couple of special photos or video here and there when you spot a moment you'd like to remember.

Above all else, have a great time. It was one year ago today that you met your child for the first time. And although your friends and family may jokingly ask if you are having "labor flashbacks," you can't help but think of that memorable day. The year passed so quickly! Your little angel has grown to a more independent toddler now, and the celebration of her first birthday is a special occasion for both of you.