Baby's First Birthday

By Jessica Williams

As you flip the calendar page, you realize your baby's first birthday is approaching. Where has the time gone? Just a few months ago she learned to sit on her own. She continues to graduate to new foods at the dinner table. And little signs of affection and humor are now shared between you. A child who was once confused by her world is now reaching out to embrace it. It's time to plan a celebration to mark the day she entered your family, just one short year ago!

How does one begin to plan such a memorable occasion? After all, a baby's first birthday is commonly thought of as one of the most special birthdays of all, followed later by her sixteenth, eighteenth and twenty first. But the truth is, she won't really know what is going on during this celebration, other than the fact that everyone is cooing over her and offering her cake and gifts. She doesn't realize her friends and family have come to recognize the day she turned one. So relax and have fun with it!

First, make sure you invite people she knows and loves. This is not a time to get extravagant and hire strangers dressed in elaborate costumes for entertainment. She may enjoy this briefly, but the expense to your pocketbook isn't worth the trouble. Instead, save the clowns for a birthday party she will appreciate (and remember!) and lean towards a more cozy approach. Invite playmates she really knows, not the toddler down the block whose never been in her company. She doesn't necessarily need a bunch of kids her age to show up - just some of her favorite people, whether they be adults, cousins or family friends.

Plan to hold the party somewhere she feels comfortable. If she really enjoys the park down the street, consider gathering there. But for convenience's sake, you may find having the celebration at home is easiest. Chances are, after cake and ice cream, unwrapping gifts and lots of snuggles from loved ones, she will need a relaxing bath and nap. And on that note, you may want to tailor the party around her schedule. If you know she is more alert and playful during the late morning hours, consider having the party then instead of during nap time or close to dinner. Everyone will understand the unique time on the invitation if you explain that it's easiest for her.